With clear success principles mapped out, you’re poised for action. Yet, even the most determined ambitions often stumble. This isn’t due to a lack of ability or drive but to subtle, pervasive pitfalls that creep in, sapping focus and diluting progress. Recognising these traps can mean the difference between fleeting attempts and genuine, lasting success. Here are some of the most frequent mistakes people make when trying to implement life-changing principles. Read More
An Unusual Place for a Thank You
Simple ideas, well executed.
If you’ve got a good relationship with a senior level stakeholder, take the opportunity to thank them for that fact at the beginning of your next meeting. It will remind them that yes, it is a good relationship, and yes, that they also like working with you. Bringing this to the fore, ahead of the main topic for the meeting, will likely change the tone of the whole meeting.
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Five Life-Changing Principles for Lasting Success
Hey, how’s life treating you? Have you reached the top yet? Achieved everything you’ve set your sights on?
No? Then it might be time to pause and reflect on these five powerful principles.
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They Could Be Right
In the multifaceted realm of human interaction, one lesson stands paramount: understanding that both you and another person, despite differing viewpoints, might be right. As we traverse the intricate pathways of influence, this becomes a crucial tool in fostering connections and nurturing relationships.
The subconscious mind plays an enigmatic yet powerful role in our interactions. While we might be unaware, our deep-seated beliefs often broadcast signals to those around us. Reflect on a situation where you disagreed with someone. Even if you endeavoured to veil it, the sentiment of "I'm right, and they're wrong" likely radiated from you. Such an attitude, subtle yet potent, can create a barrier, hampering our ability to influence and connect. Read More
From the Shadows to the Spotlight: A Proven Path
Over the course of my career, guiding senior professionals to influencer status has offered a clear revelation: the key to influence is strategic visibility. Time and again, by applying tailored strategies born from my extensive collaborations, I've watched these leaders transition from being overlooked to being indispensable. It's an art and a science, perfected through years of hands-on experience. Let the distilled essence of these journeys illuminate your own path to prominence.
Read: Jumping into the Line of Fire (one of the Lessons in Extraordinary Influence)
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Is Your Perspective Holding You Hostage
We pride ourselves on our original thought, yet how often are we merely prisoners of our own perspectives? The world is a vast mosaic of views, and if you're only seeing one tile, you're missing the masterpiece.
Join me in my latest expose as I challenge you to shatter your cognitive constraints and unleash a flood of innovative ideas.
Read: Mastering Influence: Imagined Perspectives (one of the Lessons in Extraordinary Influence)
Read MorePerspective: The Key to Unravelling Complexities
One of the biggest lessons I've learned is that influence challenges aren’t always as complex as they seem. When faced with roadblocks, it's tempting to retreat or persist with the same strategy.
However, my breakthroughs often came from stepping back and viewing the challenge from diverse viewpoints.
In my latest piece, I’ll guide you through my journey, demonstrating how considering multiple perspectives can be the secret weapon to breaking through influence impasses. Dive in and harness the power of perspective.
Read: Mastering Influence: Imagined Perspectives (one of the Lessons in Extraordinary Influence)
Read MoreThe Perilous Path of Political Pessimism
Entering the realm of politics and power with a negative mindset is akin to setting out on a voyage with a hole in your boat. Such attitudes can cloud judgement, hinder objective assessment, and impair decision-making.
Instead of discerning opportunities, the pessimistic mind often gravitates towards perceived threats, stifling growth and innovation. Moreover, this negative approach can spread, impacting team dynamics and organisational cohesion.
Without a constructive mindset towards politics, one risks sinking in the turbulent waters of organisational dynamics, missing the chance to sail towards success.
Read: The Power of Curiosity in Understanding Power and Politics (one of the Lessons in Extraordinary Influence)
Read MoreRevel in the Adventure: The Ultimate Key to Life
In your journey towards success, there’s a key aspect that often goes overlooked: the adventure itself. Too many people get caught up in the final destination, missing the daily thrill of the path that leads them there. This final article in our series on success principles challenges you to live with an inspired and adventurous spirit. Revel in every step, for the route to your goal isn’t laid out in advance—it’s revealed only as you take it. Read More
The Optimist’s Advantage: Thriving Amidst Adversity
Optimism isn’t just a sunny disposition; it’s a life strategy. In the face of adversity, optimists don’t just hope for the best, they actively seek the silver lining, turning setbacks into comebacks. This positive approach is more than just a mood booster; it fosters resilience, encourages innovation, and can even impact overall health and longevity.
Explore the science and stories behind the optimist’s advantage and discover how a hopeful outlook can be your secret weapon against life's challenges.
Read: Breaking the Habit of Labelling Bad Things
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