If you can hold a great conversation, you can influence.

Inability to strike up and maintain conversational flow puts you at a significant disadvantage.

Great conversationalists hold our attention. They make us feel good, valued, special. Drawing us out, encouraging us to share our thoughts and ideas. Read More

We always remember the quality of our bosses.

The good, the bad, and well, the downright ugly.

Some people experience a procession of bad bosses. Each one a variation on a theme.

Others seem to always land on their feet with great bosses, or at least, seem unaffected entirely by the quality of their line-manager.

The secret to getting an ideal boss? Read More

Enthusiasm in motion, is contagious.

Enthusiastic people can be:

• Interesting
• Entertaining
• Annoying
• Inspiring
• Hard work

One undeniable fact is that enthusiastic people cannot be ignored. Read More

In work, and in life, it is common to find people trampling all over your boundaries. Stomping through the flowers beds of your values, standards and tolerances.

When someone does that, you’d be pretty normal if you got angry (at least inwardly).

Why do people do this so often? Read More

One of the inherent problems with the notion of stakeholder management is in the title.

Does anybody want to be managed these days?

It implies, to me at least, someone taking control.

Would any stakeholder want you to be in control? Read More

Always be living (and working) in threes.

1. Keep things simple (thought, word and deed).
2. Three main rules for life (values and brand words too)
3. ? (What would the third be for you?)

These create brevity, clarity and results. Read More

Be kind to others, for you know not what is in their heart.

Be especially kind to yourself, because you’ll live with your heart forever.

Have high standards, but give yourself a break too.

Reflect on all you have yet to do, but balance that with how far you have come.

Stop inflicting negative emotions on your life (and body) especially when they serve no useful purpose.

Learn from your past, but don’t allow it to blight your future.

Now come on, it’s been a tough week, go put your feet up and switch off for 30 minutes. The world will still be here when you get back.

When you strip away all the nice words written about trust, the whole thing boils down to one very personal judgement: predictability.

Does someone do what you expect them to do?

From maintaining confidentiality to delivered on time, we all have expectations of others, but how do they measure up?

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