- Lack of confidence, when noticed by others, creates wariness - "Why is this person lacking confidence, do they not believe what they are saying or asking me to do?"
- Low confidence undermines competence. You have the skills and capability, but your internal dialogue mutes your performance.
- Feeling a lack of confidence signals an amazing opportunity - you're right on the cusp of learning something new, and venturing where you've never been before.
- Fantasies about what others think is a common cause, and while somewhat valid, is usually massively exaggerated.
- Everyone, yes everyone, will feel a lack of confidence many times in their careers/lives - it's natural and part of the learning process. The problem is when you allow it to paralyse your action.
Ten Years! Seven of the Best
This week marks the tenth anniversary of my blog, which I find hard to believe. Harder still is to note that in those ten years I’ve published nigh on 1,000 articles and 500 videos, all focused on helping people to succeed with greater impact and influence.
To mark the occasion I’ve pulled out the seven articles I most frequently refer to in my private coaching work and for the time being, have made these public so you can read, enjoy and hopefully, benefit too. Read More
Your Track-Record
The Delicate Art of Getting What You Need
Sometimes, we all need to be: Read More
Accelerated Personal Development
Last week’s article on trail blazers stretched some a little too far.
Comments about how impossible it is to develop these, and in one case, “I’m just not like that.”
Nonsense.
These things are easy, when you know how.
How do I know that?
Read MorePeople Pleasers (Gautrey Live)
- Why is the topic People Pleaser so important to people?
- What exactly is a People Pleaser?
- How to diagnose if you are a People Pleaser?
- Considering the context (or excuses?).
- Finding personal freedom (not to please).
- The subtle, and not so subtle, art of saying NO.
- Shifting the balance of power.
- Personal organisation - how to defend your time.
- Detaching yourself from the outcome.
- Maturing your position in life (and work).
- Lack of perceived value-add.
Are You Stuck in a Rut?
Buckle Up. Toughen Up.
I may be wrong, but I don’t think so, not on this one.
If you are one of those people who is sensitive, easily offended, or takes things personally, you’re in for a rough ride.
The world is turning into a new phase, and for many it will not be pleasant at all.
Subjective Reality
Your reality is entirely subjective, because you are the only one experiencing it.
Only people with identical knowledge, awareness, experience, values, ambitions and circumstances will be able to experience your reality. Which is minuscule in probability. Read More
The Criticality of Trust
Over the last few weeks I’ve had many conversations about handling difficult people, both coaching sessions and my Let’s Talk group. A few things have become apparent.
- If you are facing up to a difficult person, there will be flaws in the relationship.
- If you have a flaw in your relationship, odds-on there is a problem with trust.
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