At first glance, feelings of uncertainty might seem like setbacks, but they are, in truth, stepping stones to significant growth. When we encounter a dip in our confidence, it often signifies that we're on the brink of venturing beyond our comfort zones. This unease...
Echoes from the Top: Authenticity as the True North
In my rich tapestry of experiences coaching leading lights, one insight stands tall: the most influential leaders don't gain political capital through cunning, but through authenticity. Their influence isn’t contrived; it’s a natural byproduct of genuine engagements...
The Power of Reaction: Guarding Your Influence
Reacting emotionally to opponents' moves can unravel influence. Why play into their hands? Astute leaders thwart this by intercepting the initial emotional surge. A brief pause disarms the emotional trigger and opens a path for strategic thinking. No longer ensnared...
Judgement: The Invisible Barrier
In every interaction, there's an unseen, often unfelt, barrier: judgement. Each of us yearns for genuine recognition, to be seen beyond the screen of biases and preconceived notions. When we approach conversations with these filters, it creates a disconnect, hampering...
Undercurrents of Disdain: Navigating the Treacherous Waters of Disagreement
Disagreements are a natural facet of human interaction. Yet, when tinged with an undercurrent of disdain or a presumption of another’s wrongness, they become treacherous waters. These subtle nuances can provoke defensiveness, hinder open dialogue, and obscure the...
The Elevation of Responsibility in Leadership
In my mentorship sessions with the crème de la crème of leadership, a consistent dichotomy emerges. Even those at the zenith often find themselves trapped within cocoons of perceived limitations. However, a paradigm shift occurs once they internalise the mantra of 'No...
