It would be reasonable to assume that you and your boss have the same agenda, when it comes to you work. However, your priorities may well be different.
Here’s a quick test you can do.
Quick as you can, jot down the top 3-5 items on your agenda. Make sure to write them down in priority order. Which is most important?
We always remember the quality of our bosses.
The good, the bad, and well, the downright ugly.
Some people experience a procession of bad bosses. Each one a variation on a theme.
Others seem to always land on their feet with great bosses, or at least, seem unaffected entirely by the quality of their line-manager.
The secret to getting an ideal boss? Read More
In work, and in life, it is common to find people trampling all over your boundaries. Stomping through the flowers beds of your values, standards and tolerances.
When someone does that, you’d be pretty normal if you got angry (at least inwardly).
Why do people do this so often? Read More
Why are you so gullible?
I don’t wish to be rude.
You may choose to take it that way, but that’s up to you.
Today it seems like the majority of people are far too gullible, and that poses a problem.
Even the term “fake news” is likely to be sleight-of-hand. Almost all data is presented to suit the agenda.
Why do they do all of this? Read More
Life is complicated enough without us making it more so.
While I strongly advocate simplicity, it frequently eludes me in my own work. Except, when I’m coaching.
Yesterday was a prime example of this. My client all-but slapped his forehead as yet another simple concept landed. Concepts that he already knew and accepted, but had been buried in the maelstrom of confusion, distraction and stress.
Which is why I love my work as a coach so much. Being that independent outsider ready, willing, and able, to reflect back the blindingly obvious to help people make significant and effortless shifts in their thinking and progress.
So, stimulated by the last few coaching calls, here are nine simple ideas that can help you to become more influential without too much effort or energy. Read More
“Power tends to corrupt, and absolute power corrupts absolutely.” Lord Action
Only history will prove if we are at a point in time right now where absolute power is absolutely corrupting.
Unable to divine what is fact, fiction or fake, on so many high-consequence matters, many would be forgiven for believing that we are at that point, total domination of corrupt power.
However, it is always a matter of degree, and always a very personal viewpoint. Read More
Few can doubt that one of the greats in the field of influence is Dr. Robert Cialdini. I’m sure you’ve heard of (and probably used) his principles of persuasion - i know i have, and do my best to avoid them wherever possible.
Actually, they are pretty straightforward, but what he has not highlight, is the eight principle.
The original six came after his research way back in 1984. In summary… Read More
With the 5Cs of The Influence to Thrive Model, perhaps the one which causes the most problems for people is Grasp Your CONTEXT. This has major consequences because unless you are intimately aware of the context in which you build and implement your vision, you’ll likely get nowhere fast.
Quite why Grasp Your CONTEXT is so difficult is unclear to me, but certainly, many struggle because of the often nebulous and subjective nature of this area. Aside from the professional agendas which are usually fairly straightforward to determine (well, at least the official version!), it takes confidence, determination and the Read More
To my way of thinking, the ultimate boss-subordinate relationship is experienced as a mutually beneficial collaboration or partnership that also respects the hierarchical status. This means you are both working together, sharing, problem-solving and doing your level best to help each other because you both know at a deep level it is in your best interests.
How does your boss relationship measure up to that ideal?
If my recent coaching experience is anything to go by, at best only 2/3rds of people have this quality. Had I probed, my guess would be less than 10%.
If you’re in that 10%, look after that relationship like a most precious asset, because right now, given what is going on in the world, a great deal of disruption is heading in your direction. Having a strong relationship with the boss is going to serve you well. Read More
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