“I’m working hard, delivering results… and still getting overlooked—while others get ahead through connections.”
You’ve done the work.
You’ve kept it professional.
You’ve delivered—again and again.
But when the next opportunity comes around, someone else’s name is already on it.
Not because they’re better. Not because they’ve earned it.
But because they know the right people.
And it’s not just frustrating—it’s insulting.
What This Feels Like
You start wondering what the point is.
Why keep putting in the effort if influence trumps outcomes?
Why stay committed when progress depends more on politics than performance?
This is where talented professionals often lose momentum—quietly. They disengage, then disappear.
Not because they weren’t good enough.
But because the system rewarded something else.
Three Smart Shifts That Keep You in the Game (Without Selling Out)
You don’t need to play games—but you do need to understand them.
1. Track where influence is coming from
Who gets listened to? Whose ideas move quickly?
Start observing patterns—not just of who has power, but who amplifies others.
You’ll begin to see how the web works—and where your access points lie.
2. Build trust before you need it
Don’t wait for the big moment.
Start investing in low-key, genuine connections now—with people beyond your immediate team.
A five-minute chat, a shared insight, a quick “well done” message—it’s quiet, but cumulative.
Influence builds one interaction at a time.
3. Make your work easy to advocate for
If people can’t summarise what you’re great at, they won’t talk about it.
Give them something to say:
“That’s the person who made X happen.”
“If you need clarity, go to her.”
Craft a message others can carry. Because they will—if it’s easy.
When Influence Meets Credibility
You stop waiting to be recognised.
You start showing up differently—more connected, more aware, more strategic.
You still do great work.
But now, it’s in the right rooms.
With the right people.
At the right time.
And suddenly, doors that never opened before… start to swing wide.
The Gautrey Influence Blog
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