When relationships at work don’t work, everything feels harder.
Progress slows. Stress rises. And no matter how skilled or experienced you are, it’s easy to feel stuck or sidelined—especially when dealing with a boss who won’t listen, a colleague who undermines you, or a stakeholder who drags their feet.
In these situations, many professionals make the same mistake: they focus on managing the task—and forget to manage the relationship.
Here’s the truth: relationships are fuel for progress. The stronger the connection, the more influence you have—and the easier it becomes to get things done.
But too often, we rely on formal authority, logic, or performance alone, hoping others will simply do what’s expected. And when they don’t? We push harder, explain more clearly, or quietly stew in frustration.
What’s missing?
In a word: warmth.
Not forced friendliness or fake charm—but a genuine human connection.
A subtle shift that makes people more open to your ideas, more willing to help, and more invested in your success.
Adding warmth isn’t about being soft or sacrificing standards.
It’s about being deliberately human—and opening the door to influence.
A kind word, a moment of empathy, a shared laugh—these small moves build trust, lower resistance, and turn difficult people into willing allies (or at least less of a problem).
It doesn’t take long.
But it does take intention.
And once you do it, you’ll start to see the difference in how people respond—and how much easier it becomes to make progress in your work.
Challenge for today:
What’s one work relationship that feels cold or strained?
What small action could add warmth and open up the connection?
You don’t have to make a grand gesture—just a tiny spark could start to shift the dynamic.
The Gautrey Influence Blog
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