Influence is power – how you wield it shapes lasting success or shatters trust.
Too many mistake it for pushing agendas or ‘winning’ at others’ expense. That’s manipulation – and manipulators always falter.
True influence builds bonds, credibility, and mutual wins. Here are five rules to guide you.
- Rule No. 1: ‘Help others decide wisely.’ Don’t hide facts to sway them. Full disclosure builds trust – if your case is solid, it’ll stand.
- Rule No. 2: ‘Be open about your aims.’ Hidden motives breed suspicion. Transparency invites fair dialogue.
- Rule No. 3: ‘Ensure mutual gain.’ One-sided wins spark resistance. Consider their benefit too.
- Rule No. 4: ‘Seek real commitment.’ Forcing agreement is control – temporary at best. Guide with questions for true buy-in.
- Rule No. 5: ‘Avoid deceit or harm.’ Lies fade; integrity endures. If you’d dread exposure, don’t do it.
Influence that lasts stems from trust, not tricks. Live these rules, and others will follow willingly.
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