Private Insights on Influence

The Cost of External Validation

In today's society, we're persistently nudged towards seeking validation. From the workplace to social events, the longing for approval is omnipresent. But what's the real toll of such a desire? Surrendering to external judgements hinders our independence in career...

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Mirrored Judgements: Crafting Conscious Impressions

We've all passed fleeting judgements on colleagues' punctuality or friends' reliability. But while we're instinctively evaluating others, they're doing the same to us. It becomes pivotal, then, to make conscious choices about the impressions we want to cast. Are the...

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The Spotlight’s True Lure

In the vast expanse of corporate voices clamouring for recognition, standing out is both an art and a science. It's not about blindly chasing the spotlight but discerning its next direction. By aligning your objectives with those of the organisation's vision and...

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Unlocking the Power of Empathy in Influence

Truly understanding the emotions and motivations of those around you is a game-changer. How have I managed to delve into such depths? Through the power of perspective. In my next article, I highlight its significance, illustrating how adopting various viewpoints can...

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Disdain for Politics: A Recipe for Ruin

While the corridors of power are complex, navigating them with contempt or negativity is a sure recipe for ruin. Such attitudes prevent the cultivation of essential alliances, stymie collaboration, and often lead to misunderstandings. Moreover, an aversion to politics...

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Elevate to Differentiate: The Visionary’s Advantage

In the vast sea of professionals, standing out is more challenging than ever. Yet, the differentiation tool isn't always a louder voice or a flashier presentation. It's a visionary's gaze. When you consistently shift your perspective from the immediate to the grander...

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