Last week’s article on trail blazers stretched some a little too far. Comments about how impossible it is to develop these, and in one case, “I’m just not like that.” Nonsense. These things are easy, when you know how. How do I know that? Because I’ve done it, and...
People Pleasers (Gautrey Live)
The last session of Gautrey Live on People Pleasers was extremely useful, and broke the time barrier due to the quality and quantity of interaction from Private Clients. The snippets make for interesting listing for anyone who is honest enough, at least privately, to...
Are You Stuck in a Rut?
If you're stuck in a rut, you're dying, little by little, day by day. The frustration, indecision, fear and anxiety build up first in your mind, then in your body. Stress does things to a body, we all know that. And the longer you are stuck, the bigger the hit you...
Buckle Up. Toughen Up.
I may be wrong, but I don’t think so, not on this one. If you are one of those people who is sensitive, easily offended, or takes things personally, you’re in for a rough ride. The world is turning into a new phase, and for many it will not be pleasant at all. Now is...
Subjective Reality
Your reality is entirely subjective, because you are the only one experiencing it. Only people with identical knowledge, awareness, experience, values, ambitions and circumstances will be able to experience your reality. Which is minuscule in probability. So, your...
The Criticality of Trust
Over the last few weeks I’ve had many conversations about handling difficult people, both coaching sessions and my Let’s Talk group. A few things have become apparent. If you are facing up to a difficult person, there will be flaws in the relationship. If you have a...
