Earlier this week we had a lively debate in the Let’s Talk on Emotional Distraction. One of the areas we discussed what the structure of relationships and particularly, the areas where difference can interrupt the relationship. I first wrote about this a few months...
All round, it seems that expectations are a mug's game, whichever way you look at it. If you have expectations of others, you are sure to be disappointed. Not that they necessarily want to let you down. It may simply be they have other priorities, or interpretations...
When you aspire to great achievement, and lofty levels, begin with the bigger picture. This means, having your own personal vision of what you intend to deliver. Not merely being a great leader, or a collaborator or some such noble aims. These are important, but in...
When it comes to remarkable achievement, it is never possible to know the how until you have arrived. Most times, at the beginning, it doesn’t even look feasible. If you fret or worry about the how too soon, you’ll never get moving, and never find the way to make it...
Worrying is one of those nasty little habits that are so common, like biting your nails. Unlike biting your nails though, worrying can have far greater consequences for you, your career and your life. Of course, worrying is about preparing for a future that may...
The biggest problem with introverts is that they identify with being an introvert. They say: “Oh, I’m an introvert which makes networking uncomfortable.” “I can’t do all this small talk.” “I feel awkward because I’m so shy.” And many similar things that serve only...