Private Insights on Influence

Developing Tenacity when Facing Opposition

Everyone should have opposition. It is natural and to be encouraged. If you don't have opposition, you are not trying hard enough, or you are deluded. Developing appropriate tenacity and displaying the right level of resolve may not win the day, but it should earn the...

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Engaging and Influencing Stakeholders

Stakeholders are important people who share an interest in your success. You need to engage with them at the right time so that you can influence them as easily as possible. Stakeholder influence doesn't just happen; you have to make it happen. By engaging with your...

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New Job? Quickly Learn How to Be Influential

Fantastic, you've got a new job! Now, quick as you can, you need to establish your influence. Unless you can be influential from the start, there is a risk you may have to recover and gradually build it later. The best time to make a great impression is right now as...

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Are You an Ethical Influencer? 21 Questions

It is very rare that I meet an unethical influencer ― thankfully! However, there are many I meet whom I wonder about. They operate on the fringes of integrity, in my view. Trouble is, as I have explained elsewhere, integrity means different things to different people....

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Building Trust in a New Relationship

The importance of trust in building long-term relationships should be evident to all. A few months back, I suggested a few ways of [intlink id="1061" type="post"]Building Trust Beyond the Obvious[/intlink] and here I want to step back a little and explore how trust...

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How to Develop Genuine Gravitas

Can you spot a fake? When it comes to gravitas, I believe that anyone with a reasonable amount of experience can easily detect when someone is pretending. They may not be able to explain why, but they will certainly get the feeling that the individual they are...

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