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Make Conscious Choices

August 2, 2023 by Colin Gautrey

Choices, are the building blocks of our reality. They shape our attitudes, values, beliefs, and even our very identity. Shall we embark on a journey of conscious decision-making? Let us explore the fundamental choices that hold the power to transform our lives.

Firstly, let us talk about attitude. Today, you have the power to choose your outlook. Will you embrace positivity, determination, or enthusiasm? Set your intentions and embark on your day with a chosen attitude, for it will colour your expectations, reactions, and ultimately, your results. And fear not, if your chosen attitude wavers, simply bring it back to what you desire. Mastering the skill of attitude management can truly be transformative. Read More

Become Your Own Judge and Jury

August 1, 2023 by Colin Gautrey

The human desire for recognition is an intricate web that entangles us all. From the workplace, where we seek to impress our superiors, to social settings, where we strive to be visible and amicable, the subtle quest for approval penetrates every facet of modern life.

However, one must pause and reflect on the implications of such an insatiable yearning. What price do we pay for seeking validation from others? Read More

The Power of Expectation

July 31, 2023 by Colin Gautrey

The power of expectation is both subtle and profound. It is the lens through which we view our interactions, predicaments, and opportunities. It's not just about thinking positively; it's about the practical, real-world impact of our anticipations on our behaviours and the reactions of those around us.

Imagine walking down a street and encountering someone with a clenched fist, a tense posture, and a confrontational stare. Your instinct would likely be to prepare for conflict or to retreat swiftly. In contrast, if the same person approached you with open palms and a friendly smile, your response would be entirely different. This scenario illustrates a simple truth: our expectations, often manifesting in our body language and attitude, can set the tone for the outcomes we experience. Read More

The Power of Decisiveness

July 27, 2023 by Colin Gautrey

In a world where opportunities abound, indecisiveness can be a silent killer of progress and success. Waiting for the perfect answer before taking action only serves to paralyse us. It's time to break free from the chains of uncertainty and embrace the power of making firm decisions. Let’s explore how decisive action can propel us towards success and inspire a lifetime of accomplishments.

Indecisiveness Paralyses

Reality, Expectation and Obsession

July 18, 2023 by Colin Gautrey

Ordinary people often settle for goals they believe they can achieve, but they fail to grasp the potential of extraordinary accomplishment. Extraordinary individuals, follow a different path. They envision a goal they are convinced they will achieve and then embark on a journey fuelled by unwavering conviction and relentless action. The key lies in clarifying your vision, establishing the conviction that you will achieve it, and then becoming utterly obsessed with taking action towards its realisation. Read More

Take Control of the Day Job

July 3, 2023 by Colin Gautrey

In an ever-busy world, everyone I've met seems to have one challenge in common: an overwhelming list of tasks. The modern ethos, echoing in countless corridors, is to "do more with less". The weight of responsibilities is ever-mounting, demands are ceaselessly escalating, and the availability of resources is always stretched thin. Yet, atop this mountain of to-dos, I am suggesting an additional layer: delving deep into the nuances of workplace dynamics, forging stronger relationships, continuous research, and sharpening your understanding of the intricate web of organisational culture. Read More

Unleash Your Potential: Embrace Personal Principles for Extraordinary Growth

June 27, 2023 by Colin Gautrey

Are you truly content with your life's direction? Do you feel a deep sense of fulfilment and purpose? If not, it's time for a transformative journey anchored by principles that resonate with your very essence.

Let these principles be your unwavering compass, guiding you to understand who you are, who you aspire to be, and who you've been. But remember, it is essential to embark on a process of deep reflection and develop your own personal principles. These principles should reflect your values, aspirations, and unique journey.

As you internalise these self-crafted principles, you'll witness a remarkable shift. Stress will diminish, and challenges will lose their power to overwhelm you. Armed with newfound ease, you'll confront life's hurdles head-on.

By anchoring your life in these personal principles, you'll unveil profound simplicity that permeates every aspect of your existence. Your life will become a tapestry of purpose and meaning, with each step aligned with your true self.

Here are seven principles that underpin my own journey. While I may not embody them perfectly, they serve as my trusted guides and mentors: Read More

21 Ways to Become More Visible

April 12, 2023 by Colin Gautrey

In Building Visibility and Promoting Your Reputation (Article 41) I was exhorting the need to do a little self-promotion of your reputation and brand to make sure that you gain the visibility you need to maximise your progress towards your goal. Hopefully, you’ve already been doing some thinking about the actions you can take while also adjusting your mind to the need to take these actions. Now you are under way with that, here are 21 more ideas for you to consider adding to your plans. All of them might work for you. Several of them I am sure will stretch your tolerance of what is acceptable to do. All of them need to be taken seriously and considered in your context. Whatever you do, do not dismiss any of them without at first finding out how each could work for you. Read More

Intractable Problems

March 10, 2023 by Colin Gautrey

When facing an intractable high-consequence problem, your biggest enemy is yourself.

Human nature being what it is, most mere mortals worry their problems into a state that makes them even more difficult to resolve.

Stress builds further and the mind wanders to all the bad things that could happen.

The inevitable delays add more weight to the problem, and more stress and health begins to suffer.

A perfect storm.

So, how do you break out of this vicious cycle?

We all have our own ways, what gets me moving more positively is three simple steps.

Write it down. Lay the problem out as simply as possible and attempt to document your ideal outcome.
Forget about it. Go for a walk, get out in nature, enjoy the company of others. Really good to distress and relax. Resets the mind to adopt a positive attitude and opens it up to fresh thinking.
Return to the problem with a positive mindset, confident that you will find a way to achieve your ideal solution, and fast.

Oh, and when you do return to the problem, keep your emotions out of it.

Engage your head (with positive expectations) not your heart. Save the emotions for after you’ve decided what to do.

For me, this frees up my thinking and puts me in a far more resourceful state.

Generally this allows me to find novel ideas and see different perspectives. And the solutions and decisions in hot pursuit!

Don’t suffer a complex problem, set yourself up for success instead.

Seizing the Opportunity

January 12, 2023 by Colin Gautrey

Five years ago I made a decision.

The years were rolling by and I had the growing feeling that I’d missed the boat. Successful yes, but nowhere near where I wanted to be, with what I had been striving for, and where I thought I would be. Like so many, I had not arrived.

Why, with all my knowledge was it not happening for me? Read More

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